THIS. IS. NOT. ABOUT. MY. LOVE. FOR. JIGSAW. PUZZLES. ALTHOUGH…. 🙂
When I first began to toss around a title for this post, I thought of conundrum. But that sounded too high-falootin’. When I looked that word up here, you can see the definitions and some synonyms. So I decided to go with the simpler word (I also thought of enigma). Anyway, I have two puzzles I want to present to you in this post and get your thoughts. The first “honked me off” so I had to wait a day or two to write about it. The second just happened. Ready? Here goes:
PUZZLE #1
I pastor a church in a small town so we have a unique thing going on anyway. I am part of a ministerial association- a loose knit group of pastors who get together for a meeting/sometimes breakfast once a month, and also work to bring a community-wide Thanksgiving and Good Friday service/Easter Sunrise breakfast. There are definitely some who come with whom I disagree doctrinally, but for the sake of the community, I participate. Around October of last year, two of the pastors approached a local church pastor (who is only part-time & from another town) and asked his church to cease and desist in allowing PFLAG from using their social hall for meetings. When they received no cooperation, they asked the local pastors to excommunicate the church from the association. Some of us refused to do so (yes, I was one). After another “power show” at a meeting, three of the pastors have withdrawn from the association. (Remember loose-knit with no by-laws, etc). One of the pastors even denounced us in front of his congregation on a Sunday morning.
So, here is your puzzle discussion. First, let me set a ground rule. This is not about the rightness or wrongness of homosexual behavior. I believe the Bible speaks clearly that it is sinful. The worn-out adage is true: God loves the sinner, but hates the sin. So, don’t even discuss that…please. My contribution to the discussion was “The behavior is wrong Biblically, no question, but we have no power to excommunicate the (———————–) from participating. Just avoid asking them for active participation (speaking, hosting, etc). If a leader from the church asks, then tell them.” Others agreed in one form or another. Ironically, some of the withdrawing pastors may have “biblical beliefs” against women pastors (I am not comfortable with it); some “churches” that would come close to being classified as a cult (not JW or Mormon, but over-bearing, manipulative, sometimes cussing pastors); and even the health/wealth junk un-gospel, but can’t let this go. What are your thoughts? Was I wrong? How would you have handled it? Would you have said something differently in the meeting? I would love to hear your thoughts. PLEASE stick to the subject/ground rules.
OH YEAH…PUZZLE #2. I WILL COVER THAT SOMETIME NEXT WEEK. THIS ONE IS LONG ENOUGH. 😛
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