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Hype

Thursday, July 31st, 2014

If you have been reading this week, you know I have been posting about our vacation to Pigeon Forge and different events, happenings, lessons along the way. Hopefully I haven’t bored you. 🙂

While Tami & I were in the Titanic museum, Jo, Janna (our youngest) and Braden (our grandson) went next door to Wonderworks. It sounded interesting. It was. For all of them. My description of it would be “a fun place for all on steroids.” Wonderworks included a multitude of special effects, laser tag, rock climbing, interactive science offerings, ropes, and a whole lot more. Hint: Google Wonderworks. 🙂 They loved it! Especially Braden because it was action and activity.

We live in an age of action. At one point it was called “The MTV generation.” I would say it was “hit ’em and go!” Three to four minute videos and NEXT? It affected the way churches related to its culture. It hasn’t changed one iota, except for hit ’em harder, faster and add the hype. As a pastor/preacher I want more than anything to believe people come to hear me. 🙂 I am not naive enough to think that actually happens on a wide basis. There are many who come for the music; for the worship; for the children’s program; for the fellowship. But what the church really needs to be careful of is the hype. It is scary when you look at our culture and realize how things have changed over the years. What we never thought would be, now is.

I recently had a couple decide to stop coming, to “give modern worship music a rest.” True, they like the hymns. But her words to me were, “We want less music and more Pastor Bill.” Flattering but not going to happen. I preach 25-30 minutes and I am tapped out. I once tried the 45-50 approach like some of my “heroes” but fortunately I had a loving wife bold enough to say, “That is not you. You repeat yourself too much.” Point taken. I told the lady, “Less music does not equal more Pastor Bill. It just means less music.” But their desire is a rarity these days. If we don’t have smoke & lights to go along with our rock music (often “secular”) we don’t think we are “relevant.” I disagree. While I am not opposed to modern worship music (not in the least) we must NEVER steal from the purpose we are there: to honor and glorify the Father. Anything less is idolatry and hype.

The trick for certain tourist attractions is something different, almost avant garde. God help the church when that thinking gets in. Our thinking then becomes what is the next big thing we can introduce? I have an idea. How about just introducing people to Jesus and His Word?

Your thoughts?

Disillusionment

Wednesday, July 30th, 2014

Disillusionment

Arrogance

Pride

Foolhardiness

Mispreparation

Man’s ingenuity

A lot of words can be used to describe this visit. My ultimate highlight of the vacation was spending time with my family. Make no mistake about that. But I have to admit I did have one major goal in our recent visit to Pigeon Forge (and it certainly wasn’t Dollywood or Country Music of any fashion).  Two words:

TITANIC MUSEUM

I didn’t even know there was such a thing until Jo made a trek to PF on Memorial Day weekend with three other ladies and they went through the museum. She is not a Titanic fan by any stretch and has not even seen the movie. But she really liked it and knew I would. So as her “bribe” to get me to go, the Titanic Museum was my reward. 🙂

We all know the story of Titanic so there is no sense in repeating it here. If you don’t…one word…Google. 😉 I won’t lie: I like the movie-chic flick or not. I can draw so many lessons from it. But in reality, I know the movie is cinema; I am fascinated by the real event. The history. The people. The reaction. The laissez-faire attitude of surrounding ships. The same attitude of many of the crew. The adjectives I used at the very beginning of this post. So many fascinating details, stories, sights. An iceberg to touch. Water the temperature of the ocean that night to put your hand into. The story told about the one pastor who spent his last moments asking people if they were saved. The one black man on board (a Haitian engineer denied First Class passage due to his interracial marriage to his white wife). The chivalry of so many. The “class” of John Jacob Astor. The “arrogance” of Benjamin Guggenheim. The love of the Strauss’, the founders of Macy’s, who refused to separate after 45+ years together (and gave her life vest to their maid).

Braden thought I spent all day there. I think I was there for about 2 hours…and trust me I could have stayed longer. I walked out with conflicting emotions. 1517 souls sunk with her. The ship “not even God could sink” sunk on its own. So many mistakes. So many good stories. All for me…to learn from…to remind myself of the dire consequences of arrogance…the utter disillusionment wealth, fame, and fortune gain. But also stories of men and women who thought of others before themselves, many sacrificing their lives so someone else may live. Did you know Astor put his wife on the lifeboat and then found a child to put in his place? Those kinds of stories remind me of the ONE who gave Himself freely for me…for you…so we would not be lost.

If you get a chance…go to the Titanic Museum and be prepared to be amazed, humbled, overwhelmed, and much more.

Independence

Tuesday, July 29th, 2014

“You sure do have an independent streak!”

Those are familiar words spoken often to kids (and to some adults). Let’s face it: we are to raise our kids to become independent since we would be alarmed if they never learned to dress, eat, walk, or play on their own.

The problem is when 1) they get there too quickly, and 2) when they are quite adamant about it.  You know…maybe they could wait at least until they are 16 before they don’t need us anymore. 😛

I saw this in Braden while on vacation as well. He is 7 1/2 going on 15 I think. In attitude anyway. He is now/already in that “I don’t kiss anyone goodnight or good-bye anymore.” He doesn’t give hugs very easily nor say “I love you” all that quickly either. He definitely doesn’t want to hold our hands, even when crossing a street or in a parking lot.

He has developed a streak of fierce independence. That is okay on some things but not on others.

Sort of like me and God. I will admit to some independence on my part. Okay…more than I probably should have. I mean, I know God wants me functioning on my own, but under the control and power of His Spirit. He wants to walk with me through my daily life. But sometimes I stubbornly refuse His embrace, His “kiss,” His desire to hold my hand. “I can do this on my own.” Yeah, and about the time I decide to flex my muscles I get run over by a truck.

It is good to be independent…in some areas and on some things. But it also equally good to be dependent.  “I have been crucified with Christ. it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me…” Gal.2:20

Do you have trouble with dependence?

 

Disappointment

Monday, July 28th, 2014

Disappointment is part and parcel of life. Anyone who has lived any time on this earth knows that. Even young ones know disappointment; they just might not know what to call it.

As an adult I understand disappointment is going to happen. I will admit to sometime even expecting it, so that when it happens, I won’t be too down about it.  But how do you explain it to a 7 1/2 year old?

Last Friday we headed to Ohio because Saturday morning Braden was scheduled to play in an All-star game (coach pitch). If they won the first, they would play the second. If they won both they would play a third. He was stoked! He loves baseball and looked forward to getting out on the field, and if he had a chance, to get dirty. 🙂

What he wasn’t counting on was the weather not cooperating. It was raining early in the morning (I even had to postpone a planned early morning ride), and continued raining past our lunch at Chic-fil-A. While eating we heard all games were cancelled.

And wouldn’t you know it…shortly after that-probably within 10 minutes- it stopped raining and the sun came out. It turned out so nice I actually rode 25 miles later. But it caused a major issue. We had planned on leaving Sunday morning for Pigeon Forge and meeting Tami. The first game was scheduled for 9:00 Sunday morning; the second for 3:00; the third at 5:00. Janna said we could go and she would stay home with Braden but we wanted them to go with us. So Janna talked to Braden and he agreed he would be okay playing the first game and then leaving.

Until…they lost the first game. Then his desire to play kicked in. “We lost this one with me playing. They will probably win the next one.” Disappointment was written all over his face. But he was a trooper and went with the plan.

Wednesday, he rode go-carts (several with his mom) and one by himself. I couldn’t fit in the car. Too tall. Then we played a round of miniature golf. He didn’t handle losing very well so we decided that was enough golfing. He wanted to ride the roller coaster and some of the other rides. About that time the skies opened up and everyone still outside got drenched.

Disappointment happened again. Life just didn’t go according to Braden’s plan.

Yeah…that’s me. I get disappointed as well. At God. At myself. Things don’t quite go as I think they ought to and God is the first to blame. Then I get disappointed in myself for acting like a child.

What it all comes down to is I don’t get my own way. Life is upside down, at least according to my way of thinking. Sometimes I act like a 7 1/2 year old whose whole world changed at the drop of a raindrop.

What about you? How do you handle disappointment?

Catchup

Monday, July 28th, 2014

Growing up in Pennsylvania “Catchup” was the red condiment you put on fries. I never could understand why people called it Catsup or Ketchup. I eventually realized my Pittsburgh-ese, as it was called, put a curious slant on some words. Tami still gets on me for pronouncing it “warsh” instead of “wash.” “There is no ‘r’ in wash dad,” she will say. What does she know?

Anyway, catch-up is what I am doing today. I got caught up on the mail at home last night after we got home. Today it will be office mail. Calendar update. Sermon work. Staff meeting. Cutting my field which is normally known as grass. And somewhere…somewhere…my head and body will catch-up with each other and say, “Hey! Get busy! You aren’t on vacation any more.” When I went to bed late last night (after catching up on some laundry, putting things away and other miscellaneous stuff) I knew it was going to be a short night. I hate being right!! When that alarm went off at 3:45 this morning after 10 days of no alarm, it was not a fun picture. I have this sneaking suspicion not much of today will be. 🙂 I won’t bore you with all I have to catch up on today or what is new, but suffice it to say it is going to be a long day. No make that lo-o-o-o-ng day.

1798 miles of driving…

10 days of no timetable/alarm…

10 of those days spent with Jo…

7 days spent with Janna and my 7 1/2 year old grandson…

3 of those days included Tami…

4 chances to ride my bike on flat terrain…

8 of the 10 days spent without a computer…

1 morning spent visiting with Larry the Deuce…

2 Sundays missed at home and not preaching…

2 unread Bicycling magazines which came while I was gone…

98 unread blogs…

0 blogs written…

CATCH-UP BEGINS.

It may take me a couple of days so hang in there with me please. I’ll get back to reading and commenting.  Thanks. It is “good” to be back (I think).

 

Oldie

Thursday, July 24th, 2014

I am on vacation this week and wanted to leave you with a “daily something.”

I was born in 1952. When I hit the mid ’60s Tommy James and the Shondells were stringing together hit after hit. Critics called it ‘bubblegum.” In 1968 they hit it big with Crimson and Clover and because of a scheduling conflict missed Woodstock. Things might have been totally different in many areas if they made that festival. But C&C was not my favorite song of theirs. Following that song they came out with Sweet Cherry Wine, a song Tommy says is about the blood of Christ. They then released what is my #1 favorite song of all: Crystal Blue Persuasion. Some of you will remember it. Some of you might remember it. Some of you will say, “Tommy who? Crystal Blue what?”

So here is my “daily something” for you today. Not at all like anything else this week. But I am unpredictable. 🙂 If you click on About then Show More it will tell you the story behind the song as well as give you the lyrics.

Enjoy! Have a good rest of the week.

LIVE THE ADVENTURE!

Oh…and by the way Floyd. This one’s for you! I just couldn’t let you down. 🙂

Bullying

Wednesday, July 23rd, 2014

I’m on vacation this week and wanted to leave you with a “daily something.”

Anyone who knows me knows I have a big “like” for Stryper. They were an ’80s hair band who took a stand for Christ. They made mistakes and eventually disbanded. They have gotten back together and released several recordings: Second Coming (a remake of their ’80s hits), Covering (covers of some music they grew up with), and the latest “No More Hell to Pay.” Needless to say, I like them.

Michael Sweet is their lead singer and he has come out with a solo album called “Not Your Suicide.” This song is the title song. I know it may not be your cup of tea, but the message is vital. Bullying is on the rise and suicide has been and continues to be a “rising star” among teens. This song was written to tell them they are not alone. Part of the proceeds for the sale went to Childhelp, an organization which helps victims of bullying and abuse.

Find the lyrics here.

 

Holsom

Tuesday, July 22nd, 2014

I know. All spell check monitors went absolutely nuts! 🙂

Holsom is a series of graphic novels., i.e. comic books

Back story: Several months ago I posted a review of a book on Amazon. The little company which published it saw that review and asked if I would be willing to review other material of theirs. “Sure! Why not? I’m always up for a good book.” My pickings (of what I was interested it) were sort of slim, but I decided to choose a book (which I have never received) and a series of graphic novels called “Welcome to Holsom. Population: Weird.” I received the first six books in the series. There is a total of 24 now.

Once I saw them I decided to take a slightly different approach. I’m not much of a comic book reader so I decided to ask two boys in the church to read them and give me their impressions. It has taken awhile but here is their “review” of the book. I am having to edit for word count.

The two boys were Noah and Cooper, ages 9 and 8 respectively.

#1 is about believing God, even when you don’t think He is there.

#2 is about trusting people.

#3 is about being friendly.

#4 is about being tempted.

#5 is about being better about telling your parents about things that they probably won’t believe.

#6 is about doing the right thing even when it’s tempting to do the wrong things.

Holsom was a town named after Horatio Holsom. It begins with a bully chasing some kids who hide in a barn and end up finding a robot. Through a series of adventures they learn some good life lessons (see above). Both boys liked the stories, although one thought they were too short and too quick to read. They both liked the humor in each one. They both liked that the stories had main characters who believed in God. One felt they were good reading, but not quite up to par with Tolkien (he is a LOTR fan) or C..S.Lewis. 🙂  As if…(my note)

The ultimate test? I had my 7 1/2 year old grandson read them to me last month. He liked them and even made me howl when he did the robot language. So I reckon it is safe to say they passed the test.

The also sent me two other graphic novels: one called “Beauty Queen: the Story of Esther” and “The Christ.”  Both boys liked the art work in them, as well as the story. The same artist did the Action Bible.

Thanks Noah, Cooper and Braden.

I was sent this material free of charge for the purpose of review. I was not required to give a good one.

I’m on vacation this week, but didn’t want to completely disappear from the blogosphere. So I thought I would publish something. If all works as planned, I will have met Larry and possibly Matt this morning for breakfast.

Presence

Monday, July 21st, 2014

I’m on vacation this week with my family and wanted to leave you with a “daily something” which will stir you, inspire you or just to let you know I’m still alive. 🙂

A couple weeks ago one of our lead worshipers, Peter, introduced this song to our church. I love it!

Enjoy!

Have a fantastic day!!

LIVE YOUR ADVENTURE!

Fire

Sunday, July 20th, 2014

I’m on vacation but wanted to leave a “daily something” with you. One of our lead worshipers, Peter, heard this song at a conference and has taught it to the church I pastor. I heard it one time and was sold. After I hear it I have trouble getting it out of my head.

Enjoy!

Hope you have a fantastic week!

LIVE YOUR ADVENTURE!